When you feel as though you are drowning, remember Jesus walks on the water.
Do things for others, not because of who they are, but because of who you are.
Never stop doing little things for others. Those little things to them are a big deal.
You are always the winner if you learn not to hate.
When someone really cares about you, they will make the effort to be there. Same applies to being in church, if you care.
Don't make room for more stuff. Make room for Jesus.